(Retired) Business blog 4 Family Affair Photography

New Location!

2009-01-20T11:17:00.001-08:00

You can now find our latest wedding news and photos here:

For portraits, Op Love and other photographs please visit our web site portfolio.

Thank you for visiting our blogs, we truly appreciate the time you take to look at our work.

What a GREAT Year!

2008-12-28T22:49:00.001-08:00

I thought I would make this last post of the year to recognize all the couples that we were honored to be a part of their wedding day.

Forty-three amazing couples, as you can see by the photos below it was 43 beautiful & unique weddings, A special congratulations to all of them and best of luck on their life journey together! (Yes, we are FULL time photographers, not weekend warriors!)

2009 wedding dates are already being booked, we have over a dozen wedding dates booked in 2009. Call today to check your wedding dates availability and to setup your free personal consultation meeting!

Names below the photo, if you care to see more photos from a particular wedding just look for their name on the sidebar and click on it to see their preview.

Corina & Scott, Nicole & Robert Jeniffer & Justin, Amy & Bret, Mary & Anton, Kassaundra & Mike, Elizabeth & Christopher, Amber & Scott, Cece & John, Heather & Paul, Christine & Jason , Alana & Brian, Julie & Steve, Breanna & Josh, Sarah & Skyler, Karen & Ravi, Gabrielle & Brett, Shannon & Ryan, Sarah & Jimmy, Kimberley & James, Sara & Robin, Jennifer & Andrew, Dawn & Brett, Saemi & Vincent, Amylynn & Wade, Brittany & Andrew, Nicole & Adam, Courtney & Ryan, Diana & Ted Beth & Dave, Lauren & Robert, Julie & Alan (renewing vows) Mallery & Matthew, Nikki & Jay, Megan & Nate, Jenessa & Cameron, Jennifer & Christopher, Kara & Rob Jill & Scott, Anne & Jaime, Breanne & Dennis, Erica & Mike

Our last wedding in 2008 will be Tiffany & Joshua on New Years Eve. Their preview will be found in our new blog which can be found here: Family Affair Wedding Blog. Portraits, Op Love and general photographs can be found by going to our website: www.familyaffairphotography.com and looking under portfolio.

***** Be sure to check out our photo display at Borders in Tacoma, we have been selected as a featured artist for the month of January, we are looking forward to this exciting new start to 2009! *****

Genevieve & Family

2008-12-26T15:56:00.001-08:00

Originally I had planned on posting this preview before Christmas. However, we had a small situation here in our home, we had NO heat in the new addition of the home and it was simply to cold to come work in here. The heat is now repaired and we are once again toasty warm and I'm able to get back to work.

We met with Genevieve (love that name!) and her family, I instantly fell in love with ALL the furry family members. There a few who didn't get their photo taken but, that certainly didn't make them any less special.

Thank you for allowing us to photograph your family right before Christmas we look forward to seeing you again very soon. The full gallery can be viewed here: Family Affair Galleries

Happy Holidays!

2008-12-22T19:16:00.001-08:00

"We make a living by what we get but we make a life by what we give."

Winston Churchill.

This month, I have allowed myself to take as much time off as possible. Sonny and I needed time to recoup from the busy year of weddings (over 50), the engagement portraits, family portraits, designing wedding albums and so much more.

It was simply time to take a break and recharge ourselves for the new year. We are READY! I couldn't let the holidays pass without stopping by to wish everyone a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS or HAPPY HANUKKAH from our house to yours! We look forward to many beautiful weddings in 2009.

Wedding Album

2008-12-10T21:57:00.001-08:00

With our 2009 packages we officially started offering heirloom flush mount albums to our products offered. We couldn't be more excited to start this new service!

Today we received our first album that we shot and designed. Excitement has been mounting, each time we pull the album out the first sound out of the viewers mouths is "awwwwwwwwwww" or "ohhhhhhhhhhhh" all uttered with a delighted gleam in their eyes.

Our sample has a crystal cover with a vibrant metallic photograph. It's such an attention grabber. It's stunning and elegant.

I can imagine years down the road a young daughter looking at the album dreaming of having a wedding just like her parents as she thumbs through their wedding album.

The small album off on the right is a parent album that is also available to add on.

To view the inside of the album just click on this link -> GALLERY. Or better yet, give us a call and we will be happy to show you the album in person!

*** Past brides are welcome to have albums made. Grooms, they make a wonderful anniversary gift! We also offer payment plans for the albums or any wedding package.

December Anniversaries

2008-12-08T21:23:00.001-08:00

Hard to believe we are at the end of another year! This time of the year isn't really a busy time of the year for wedding photographers. Though it's this time of the year we are busy meeting newly engaged couples and booking dates for the new year.

We are eagerly looking forward to some of the new venues we will be shooting at in 2009 and I know we have some great couples that we look forward to photographing and sharing in their celebrations of love and marriage.

Below are some of our past couples who have anniversaries this month. We of course wish them many more years of happiness and we enjoyed EVERY wedding. How many people get to go to parties as part of their job?

Justine & Ryan were married in November not December. I forgot to wish them a happy anniversary in November! Also not only is it a belated Happy Anniversary, they just had a BEAUTIFUL baby girl. Congratulations on the birth of your daughter!

Lenticular Clouds

2008-12-05T20:55:00.001-08:00

I was hoping the next set of photos I shared would be from a couple of family portrait shoots. However, they requested that I didn't post the photographs to the blog as they are to be used as a Christmas gift and how can I not honor that request?

So, instead of family portraits how about some photos of the lenticular clouds that were covering MT Rainier today? Did anyone else look out and see this awesome sight?

For your viewing pleasure ...

*** UPDATE: Sonny has a photograph that is being featured over at Pictures, Poetry & Prose. It's a beautiful blog featuring photographs and artwork with prompts for writers who come and share their writing using the photos provided. Check it out here: Pictures, Poetry & Prose.

5 Steps for Success

2008-12-04T21:21:00.001-08:00

Recently I had a visit from Jill who operates a photo booth business in AZ. I being the nosey one that I am, went over to check out her business blog - the link is at the bottom. I found this entry and asked if I could share it with my readers. I hope this will help some of our Northwest brides!

Planning your wedding should be fun!

First - determine your wedding day budget. I know - it should be a four letter word....but really, you need to know where you stand when it comes to moola. We know there are certain necessities (dress, invites, etc). Make a list of necessities and wish list items. Determine what funds will be allocated where. If parents or loved ones are assisting in financing the wedding, be up front with your costs and budget. Clear communication about finances when others are involved will make for a much less stressful wedding and keep relationships from harms way and bad feelings.

Second - secure your ceremony and reception locations. Venues book out fast, be flexible with your wedding date in order to secure the location you desire. Ask about Friday, mid-week, or Sunday pricing as those days tend to book less often and you may be able to get a discount. Many locations have open houses to display the many features they offer. Compare apples to apples and make sure to ask what is included in package prices. If you have particular vendors you want to bring in, make sure at the beginning the flexibility of having them at your wedding. Typically this won't pose an issue, however it's good to make sure at the onset instead of a week before your wedding and you're trying to scramble for a caterer.

Third - Select your wedding dress. This is obviously the most fun part of getting married!! This is something you're probably imagined from when you were little. Choices and styles can go on forever. Remember to take your wedding date and location into account and choose a gown that is appropriate. Try on as many dresses as possible, take your family and BFF's to get their opinions. Get your gown tailored - it will look amazing when it's made to fit your body.

Fourth - Research and Book your vendors. Word of mouth is the best way to find wedding vendors. Ask friends and loved ones that have recently had events - chances are they will love to tell you all the great (or horrible) things about their vendors. Unless you are hiring a Wedding Consultant (also a great idea) you'll possibly need: an officiant, photographer (Family Affair Photography is a good choice!), videographer, entertainment (plug here for photo booth), transportation, caterer, cake, decor, linens, flowers, invitations & save the date, and anything else you may want.

Fifth - Plan the cocktail hour and logistics of your reception. Sit down with your DJ and consult on what will happen when. It's nice to have an agenda and not feel like a chicken with it's head cut off. When you nail down the logistics - you can sit back and relax. Make sure to solicit the help of any additional professionals you may need to ensure a reception with great timing and lots of fun for everyone.

Although these are only five steps to assist in making the planning (and ultimately the wedding) run smoothly, remember that if you can't enjoy the process - it's hard to enjoy the result. Take time for yourself, relax, ask for help and know that, "yes" eventually it will all be over....

By Jill Smith

http://blog.a2zphotobooths.com/

A Northwest Road Trip

2008-12-03T15:07:00.001-08:00

Every now and then, however, not often enough, Sonny and I take a road trip and enjoy some of the beauty of Washington. Recently we followed a scenic route in the southern part of the state that followed along the south fork of Lewis River.

There were many times we felt as if we were a world away from civilization. Meaning it was peaceful, serene, calm, soothing to the soul. In reality we were no more than 15 miles from dense population and about 30 miles NE (as the crow flies) of Portland, OR.

We hope you enjoyed these non wedding, non portrait photographs!

Mike & Erica ~ We Do!

2008-11-29T20:55:00.001-08:00

Erica and Mike had an intimate wedding at the Divine Elegance Chapel near Pt Defiance Park in Tacoma. We customized a package to fit their needs. What was important was photographs of family (some flew in for the occasion) and of course the ceremony. It was a beautiful wedding filled with family and close friends.

** Family and friends can view the full gallery of photos here: Erica & Mike

November Round Robin Challenge

2008-11-29T00:50:00.001-08:00

I haven't had the opportunity to participate in the Round Robin Photo Challenge in several months. Simply said, I've been busy with weddings and hadn't taken the time for other types of photography. ALL photography is FUN photography as far as I'm concerned.

The current challenge is "on my table". With Thanksgiving just past, I had the perfect opportunity to take a table shot. I've cheated a bit as it's not my table, we had dinner with my wonderful sister-in-law, Debbie. Below are a few photos of the Thanksgiving dinner table that is covered with butcher paper. We all color and leave each other messages. :-) Can we say colorful FUN?

Take a moment to visit the other photographers who have participated: Round Robin Challenge

Happy Thanksgiving

2008-11-27T00:55:00.001-08:00

"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them."

-John Fitzgerald Kennedy

After a recent wedding as we were driving home, I looked up and saw this magnificent view of MT Rainier. We had dark cloudy skies all day and there in front of me was this shimmering ray of light and MT Rainier giving us a peek at her majestic beauty.

It made me think that even though this Thanksgiving life may be 'stormy' for many. Given a chance, hope can still shine through and promise a better tomorrow.

From Family Affair Photography to your family we wish you all a very Happy Thanksgiving!

The Puget Sound Wedding Professional's Bridal Open House

2008-11-25T20:20:00.001-08:00

Sonny and I are part of the Puget Sound Wedding Professional’s group and one of the wedding coordinators has taken it in her hands to arrange a Bridal Open House that we will be participating in. I will be posting information about the event as I get more information. For now, this is information from a flier I received, it truly sounds like it will be an exciting event! I hope you will come by and say hello.

Bridal fashion
Find the perfect wedding dress is every bride's dream … whether you know exactly what you want, or haven't a clue what you're looking for. The Puget Sound Wedding Professional's Bridal Open House fashion show is a great way to get ideas, spark your imagination, and shop around without ever leaving your seat!

Contests, Prizes, & Giveaways
There will be many ways to qualify to win anything from complete packages, to gift certificates, wedding cakes. Prize Drawings will be held throughout the bridal show hourly. You obtain the signature of every vendor on the provided entry card, then place your complete card in the drawing box at the designated time and be present to win. Even if you don't win a thing, every bride will go home with a bag full of many possibilities.

Beauty Boutique
We know you want to look your best for your big day, we got everything you need at the Puget Sound Wedding Professional's Bridal Show Open House. So relax and plan to spend a hour or two, and let us pamper you! Get advice, experiment with styles, sample services from local professionals. Enjoy free up-do's, makeup consultations, massage, skin treatments, makeovers, and more all day long.

Entertainment
Beauty & Wedding Planning Workshops, Musician Showcase, DJ Entertainment, and other types of entertainment. To give back to the community please bring a donation of a can food to donate to the Allen A.M.E Church Food Bank.

Just For the Bride

You are about to begin the most wonderful adventure of your life, but the countdown to the big day can be stressful. Balancing wedding planning with the many other demands on your time, not to mention the late nights and stolen moments spent cuddling and dreaming with your husband to be, can be exhausting. If there's one things brides-to-be don't have, it's spare time.

That's why we’ve brought together a team of the best wedding professionals in the Puget Sound area to give you a one day planning solution. We do the stressful part, you just have to show up. Just think...in one hour you will see more vendors than you could possibly visit or call in two months. Now that is a Saturday or Sunday well spent!

Whatever your budget and needs, we’ve got vendors with just the look and the price range you need. From exclusive events to backyard receptions, we’ve got services to make your day perfect. Whether you come for an hour or the whole day, take the opportunity to meet with industry leaders, get ideas and consultation, try samples, experiment with free up-dos and style consultation, win prizes and giveaways, and have a great time!

*** I just noticed the information I was sent didn't include date information! This is scheduled for Saturday January 31st and Sunday February 1st. Again, we hope to see YOU there!

Silly Snaps - the photo "booth"

2008-11-21T16:27:00.000-08:00

The Silly Snaps Photo 'Booth‘aka photo space .. Bring your family, friends and/or co-workers together at your event with the Silly Snaps Photo 'Booth‘, this is a fun creative idea in picture taking. Whether your guests are longtime friends or new, young or old, a Silly Snaps Photo 'Booth’ will create a great topic of conversation at every table. This is great for Wedding Receptions, Anniversaries, Bar/Bat Mitzvas, Birthday Parties, Dances, Holiday or Corporate Parties. So what are you waiting for? Let us help you capture the smiles and memories that will last a lifetime by hiring our Silly Snaps Photo 'Booth’ with props for your special day. Props include feather boas, funky hats, glasses, signs, etc.

They're Fun - Brings together friends & relatives offering them the opportunity to have their photographs taken with each other and or with the bride and groom.

It's A Social Activity - Another thing to do besides eat, drink & dance. Encourages guests to interact with one another.

Lasting Memories - You receive a DVD of all photos. Guests can view and order additional photos after the event through our online gallery via a password.

Convenient - This service does not conflict with other professional photographers. It allows a photographer to dedicate their time to other photographs instead of posing people at a backdrop.

Affordable - $100.00 first hour, $75.00 per additional hours. This price is for those using this service only and not a regular event package.

Dennis & Breann ~ We Do!

2008-11-20T02:25:00.001-08:00

Breann had contacted me and inquired about having her week day wedding photographed at the Bell Chapel in Lakewood. She only needed me for an hour for a few family photographs and of the ceremony. We created a 'package' just for her needs. No wedding is to small or less deserving than another to have memorable photographs of their special day.

** Family/friends can view the full gallery by clicking on their names: Breann & Dennis

Baby T (1) ~ 3 Months Old

2008-11-17T13:17:00.001-08:00

Baby T's parents received as a gift our "As Baby Grows" package. It's really exciting for us to watch Baby T grow. If you follow our blog, you might remember her newborn portraits. Not only is Baby T growing like a weed, she was full of smiles and her personality is developing. Next time we see her she will be 6 months old and that brings on even more changes! Stay tuned for for more photos of Baby T as she grows during her first year! If you are interested in our As Baby Grows package, contact us for details. They make a wonderful gift for new parents or as a baby shower gift!

Coffee Table Albums

2008-11-15T00:52:00.001-08:00

The 2009 packages have rolled out and with our Black Tie Affair (Deluxe) package you receive a custom designed coffee table album. We don't just drop the photos into a pre-designed template, we want this album to be a true reflection of your special day. The album above will be a sample that will be available for viewing after the holidays.

We are also eagerly anticipating our first flush mount heirloom album to arrive. We are hoping to receive that just before Christmas. Once we have the albums we will be happy to show them off .

If you were married in 2008 or have a 2009 wedding with a 2008 package we would be happy to create an album for you! Contact us if you have questions about our albums and coffee table books.

Here is a link to another coffee table album that we custom created: Robert & Nicole.

Jaime & Anne ~ We Do!

2008-11-13T22:57:00.000-08:00

Anne & Jaime recently were married at the beautiful Alderwood Lodge in Union, WA. The day had been raining off and on, basically it was a typical Northwest November day. Between the rain showers we made it outside for some of the photos and made it back into the lodge just missing a downpour. What a beautiful wedding, venue for this beautiful fun couple!

Full gallery will be available here: Anne & Jaime's photo gallery

Baby 'T' (2)

2008-11-12T19:53:00.001-08:00

Not to be confused with the newborn Baby T we posted a few months ago and will be posting her latest 3 month old session soon. The last time I saw Angela it was with her husband Ramon for a portrait session. At the time, she was pregnant with Baby T and Ramon's troop was preparing to depart to Iraq.

Ramon is away from home right now and Angela wanted to get some photographs taken so she could send him. It was fun seeing Angela again, this time in the role of 'mommy'. She's adorable as a mom. Of course it doesn't even need to be said that Baby T was also an adorable baby with beautiful long lashes.

Thank you for inviting us back to photograph your beautiful baby daughter.

Josh & Kassandra ~ We Will!

2008-11-11T02:18:00.000-08:00

Before I get into this entry, I'd like apologize to those who are patiently waiting for their previews! I have gotten behind with the blog entries. I've been busy trying to get everyone their photos to them on time that I've neglected the blog a bit. I will be getting the previews up soon!

Not that long ago, we met with Kassandra & Josh for their engagement session, Kassandra works for the same company as Sonny. I loved her infectious laughter and just how much fun Josh and Kassandra have together.

We are looking forward to their January wedding at the Liberty Theater in Puyallup.

Kudos

2008-11-04T19:12:00.000-08:00

I've been sitting on this letter for a few weeks now. The reason I didn't share it earlier is because I was trying to keep up with posting the previews from weddings and engagements shoots. Sonny and I absolutely LOVED the following letter from Lauren and Robert:

Monica,

I just had to write you a special Thank You because your photos meant so much to me. I must confess that for months leading up to the wedding I was a mess. I was trying to do a traditional church wedding on a very low budget and I had to do all the work myself. Therefore, by the time the wedding actually arrived I was in tears daily with stress and all I could think was "WHY DID I DO THIS TRADITIONAL CATHOLIC WEDDING?" I just kept saying to myself and family that I should have gone to the courthouse and made it as simple as possible. The day of the wedding I made the most of it but I still just didn't feel as though the traditional route was the right way to go.

WHEN I GOT YOUR PICTURES THAT ALL CHANGED!!!!!!!!!!!!
As I looked through the photos I instantly knew that I had the wedding of my dreams. It may have been a lot of work but, it was all worth it because of the photography. The two of you did such an excellent job! I love to scrapbook and I will create an album that I can show my kids and grand kids one day. Looking back at it now I am so happy with the wedding and even more content with the photos. I don't know how to thank you both enough for giving me beautiful memories that will last a lifetime! I just wanted you both to know how appreciated and talented you are! Thanks again for everything!

Also, I know three different couples that are engaged and I will be sending you as much business as I can when they finally set the date.

Lots of love, Lauren and Robert

Thank you Lauren & Robert! We truly enjoyed photographing your wedding and working with the two of you. The letter meant the world to us! :-)

Scott & Jill ~ We Dooooooo!

2008-11-03T17:49:00.001-08:00

Jill & Scott had their wedding on Friday, the 31st of October. Otherwise known as Halloween. It was on Halloween when they had their first met, 10 years ago and were friends for several years before dating. During our first meeting I had asked if they would be in costume and was informed by Scott yes, he was going as a groom.

It was so much fun checking out all the different characters at the wedding. They had just about every imaginable costume there. We were told to dress up ourselves, not that I lasted more than 5 minutes in mine as the witch hat was in the way and with each step I took a piece of the outfit off until I was back to wearing my black slacks and a black top. (sigh, how boring was that of me!). The last photo is of our two assistants for this wedding, Jenny and Kim (our daughter).

Thank you Jill & Scott for letting us be a part of your FUN wedding!

** The full gallery will be posted here: Jill & Scott Wedding Gallery

Please allow us some time to get ALL the photos into the gallery!

Phil & Becky ~ We Will!

2008-11-02T12:33:00.000-08:00

We recently met with Becky and Phil before the weather changed at Point Defiance Park in Tacoma for their e-session. It was enjoyable walking around the park and getting to know them better. Becky and Phil will be getting married in February, 2009 at St Rita's in Tacoma. We are looking forward to 2009 and their upcoming wedding.

Thank-you!

2008-10-29T22:34:00.000-07:00

It has to be said ... we have thee BEST customers here at Family Affair Photography! I wish I could give each and every one you who left wonderful comments for us a big (((((HUG))))). You have no idea how wonderful it feels to read your thoughts and experiences with us. Warm fuzzies - pure and simple!

We had 24 comments left at King 5's Evening Magazine "Best of Western Washington". No, we didn't "win" the title. However, I assure you, we've been smiling ear to ear. The nomination meant more than words could ever express. There were/are a LOT of wonderful photographers and to be nominated with many that I've admired was a THRILL!

Today I checked out weddingwire.com and found we had TWO new comments there! :-) It seems the more comments you get the higher they put your listing. I want to share the two newest comments from Weddingwire.com.

To see ALL the wonderful comments left about us, just click on the website links that are in bold.

(Received 5 out of 5 stars)

Family Affair Photography is the best! Monica and Sonny are top rate! Not only do they provide excellent service but they go above and beyond to make sure that everyone is included in the photographs and that the most important moments at the event are captured! Kudos to Family Affair Photography! I will NEVER use anyone else!

(received 5 out of 5 stars)
They provided me with absolutely amazing photos!!! I love the photos. I was so excited to get them and have many photos on my walls now. They will definitely be lifetime memories :). Monica and Sonny are wonderful to work with, they are compassionate and worked through extremely hot conditions and never lost their cool or composure. They are now our family photographers.

Again, both Sonny and I are so grateful and "thank-you" seems so inadequate! For lack of better words at the moment ... THANK-YOU!!!!

Dylan & Krista ~ We Will!

2008-10-28T13:01:00.001-07:00

Krista & Dylan met us at East Hill Park in Kent for their engagement session, it's always fun to go to new locations and get some change of scenery for our sessions. These two are so much fun and we look forward to their wedding next summer.

As we were walking and talking, I realized I let something go right over my head ... unfortunately this can be typical of me (Monica). Krista mentioned something about not having a fall wedding due to BIRTHDAYS! Did I hear that right? If so, and it's your birthday soon - may I wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY now?!?

Parametrix

2008-10-27T11:18:00.000-07:00

This was our 3rd year to photograph the Parametrix company party and I must admit it's fun to see familiar faces. However, I think this company has been growing as there were a LOT of new faces! As always everyone was so nice and made us feel welcome within the group.

Each year they have the party at a different location and with each location there is a new theme to the party. Many of the employees really get into the themes and dress for the occasion. I LOVE it! This is one FUN group and we truly enjoy photographing this event.

We will be posting the full event on our gallery, you can click the following link: Parametrix Gallery. It is password protected, Parametrix employees please contact us for password information!

If anyone is hoping to see a full sample from a wedding, there are a couple of featured weddings that are open without a password for you to view.

Rob & Kara ~ We Do!

2008-10-26T22:57:00.001-07:00

I recently had the opportunity to photograph Kara & Rob's wedding at Meeker Mansion in Puyallup. I remember driving past Meeker Mansion and telling my husband and photography partner that I would LOVE to photograph a wedding there. A few short days later I got an e-mail from Kara & Rob inquiring about our services! What timing.

Sonny wasn't my partner (I don't consider him a second shooter, he's my partner) for this wedding. I enlisted the help of Kim of Vivid Images to assist. All the photographs above are what I took at the wedding. I had a great time looking around the beautiful mansion, watching Kara and Rob interact with each other and getting to work with Kim once again.

October Anniversaries

2008-10-24T19:01:00.001-07:00

The photo below was scanned from a small photo that I found, she was my very first "paid" wedding and a former co-worker of mine. I will always appreciate the opportunity she gave me.

Where is this month going! It's moving much to quickly for me. I can't let the month pass without saying "Happy Anniversary" to our past brides and grooms. It's fun to look back and see some of the familiar faces. Many times we are fortunate enough to see them again at their friends weddings. And other times, it's to photograph their growing family! I know two of the couples above have now added a baby to their families. I'm looking forward to seeing the little ones in the near future.

Before signing off, I just want to remind everyone that we now have a gallery for all our photos. It's a great way to share your photos with family and friends who don't live near by. Family and friends can order prints directly from the gallery and the photographs will get sent directly to them in a nice protective box and wrapping. You can find my gallery by clicking on our name -> Family Affair Photography gallery. We have a couple of open featured albums, otherwise all albums are protected with a password.

Christopher & Jennifer ~ We Do!

2008-10-20T21:34:00.000-07:00

Chris and Jenn recently got married at one of my favorite locations here in Tacoma, Union Station. You have to admire the architecture and of course all the Chihuly pieces.

We walked outside and over to the Chihuly Bridge of Glass so we could get some photographs of the wedding party with Union Station and the city behind them. On the way over we saw a man play the sax, where Jenn & Chris shared a quick dance.

This was a beautiful wedding for a beautiful young couple. We had a lot of fun photographing Jenn, Chris and their families.

Slo Mo

2008-10-20T18:33:00.000-07:00

I wrote this and posted this on my personal blog. However, I know several of my customers know of and love Slo Mo. For that reason, I will share this entry here too. Mo was loved by all who met him. For those who don't know the story, you can catch up here: Slo Mo

He touched our hearts and we hope he knows he was loved to the end.

It is with a heavy heart that I write this entry. Today Sonny and I had to make one of thee toughest decisions we‘ve ever had to make during our marriage. While incredibly hard, we knew it was for the best.

Last year, September, Sonny called to tell me that a coworker had informed him that the lab who had been hanging around his job site had been dumped from a car. I had been hearing stories about this ‘old man’ and what a great lunch companion he had become to Sonny.
When we learned he had been DUMPED, we knew we had to help him out before the weather turned. At first we were going to provide a foster home to him until we could find him a loving forever home.

Once he was in our home it quickly became apparent that we would adopt Slo Mo ourselves. In reality when I look back, it wasn’t us who adopted Slo Mo but he adopted us. I'll have to tell you this was one of the best decisions we’ve ever made.

The decision we had to make this weekend was a end of life decision for our sweet Slo Mo. How can you possibly know when it’s time to release your animal friend from their body? It was tempting to procrastinate and hope he died naturally. However, we quickly realized watching him and seeing sheer pain in his facial expressions that we had to take action.

His quality of life was also a deciding factor. Last month we went to the beach and he went with us, enjoying the surf. However, when Sonny and the others we were with climbed a cliff he was crying at being left behind. I’m still glad he got to enjoy the rest of the day at the beach despite having a hard time moving around. He genuinely appeared happy when we were at the beach. Slo Mo LOVED his car rides, going to the park and walks in general.

Recently we took him to an off leash park and this time he couldn’t move, he sat there in frustration. At times he would get up and move a few paces before having to sit again. Before he would run off and defy his name of Slo Mo.

The other night I sat down with Slo Mo and talked to him. I let him know that I loved him, that I appreciated his protectiveness and how he quickly became a member of our pack. I also told him, I could see he was in pain and that we would release him of his pain. He looked up at me and then gently placed his head on my leg. I want to believe he understood what I was saying and maybe even heard what I couldn’t verbalize out loud.

This afternoon, on a blanket he passed peacefully, before he passed he laid down with a sigh and placed his head on Sonny’s hands.

We did what we could to provide him with the life he deserved, full of love, a full tummy, and a safe place for him to live the remainder of his days on earth. I wouldn't trade the time we've spent with Slo Mo for anything as he taught us to appreciate all that life has to offer. Slo Mo is a true angel from heaven and he will always be a part of our lives.

Justin & Jenna ~ We Will!

2008-10-19T21:59:00.000-07:00

Jenna & Justin had their engagement session at Point Defiance Park in Tacoma recently. We loved Jenna's infectious laughter and we quickly realized these two are going to be a lot of fun on their wedding. They will be getting married at a church in Puyallup with the reception following at the Pioneer Park Pavilion afterwards.

Many thanks to Nicole and Adam for recommending us to Jenna & Justin, we appreciate and it look forward to seeing everyone next summer!

*** My apologies to those waiting to see their previews here on the blog. I was dealing with a light case of food poisoning recently and it has set me behind in my updates.

Cameron & Jenessa ~ We Do!

2008-10-15T02:17:00.000-07:00

I've had the time of my life.

No I never felt this way before

Yes I swear it's the truth

And I owe it all to you

Without any doubt, when I hear the song "I've had the time of my life" from Dirty Dancing, I will think about this wedding. It was the final song of the night and the dance floor was filled with dancers for that last dance of the night. What struck my though was the pure joy I saw on the faces of Cameron and Janessa.

Everyone was having such a good time at this event, and most everyone stayed to the very end. Part of that has to be credited to their DJ, Andrew who just knows how to get people on the dance floor. He was not only teaching the bride and groom how to do the dances, he had parents and grandparents learning new moves.

Of course Janessa and Cameron were also surrounded by family and friends who were enjoying their time together. It truly was a beautiful day even if the weather outside was windy and cold. Thank you for letting us be a part of your day.

Adam & Bianca ~ We Will!

2008-10-12T01:08:00.001-07:00

Sonny and I met with Bianca and Adam in Bellingham where they are finishing their studies at Western Washington University this year. It was a lot of fun getting a tour of the campus and checking out all the sculpture art that is abundant on the campus. After spending some time on the campus they took us to see Whatcom Falls and we took a couple of photos of them there and then we stayed a bit longer to enjoy the beauty.

Bianca and Adam will be getting married July 2009 and we look forward to their lakeside wedding in Olympia. Thank you for showing us around, we enjoyed our day up in Bellingham.

Guest Signature/Memory Book

2008-10-10T20:56:00.001-07:00

I haven't shared a guest signature/memory book in a while and I've actually made several as people like this book when I pull it out to share. Trouble is, I often forget to share this particular type of book.

It's a lot of fun as guest not only sign their name but, they will share memories of the bride, groom or both, offer suggestions for a good date night, dinner, etc. The questions that can be put in the book are endless. This is a sample of the most current one I've made for Anne & Jaime's wedding next month. We not only used photos from their engagement session but some photos from a scuba diving trip and a few other personal photos.

I've seen this book getting passed around during the reception and often times I will hear a fit of laughter when they start recalling memories. If you want to see this, please don't hesitate to ask me as I often forget!

Nominated ... THANK YOU!

2008-10-10T17:58:00.000-07:00

It seems that a client of ours, (we don't know who) has nominated our photography business as one of the "Best of Western Washington"! How exciting is that! We are thrilled and wish we knew who nominated us so we could tell them how much we appreciate it and of course what a thrill it was for us to receive the e-mail from King 5 (a local TV station) about the nomination.

From what I understand they are having people vote until October 31st for the best photographer. The e-mail told me to tell all my family, friends and past/present customers to get out and vote! I'm not sure if there is a prize involved as I haven't taken the time to read all the details. Or if it's having the HONOR of knowing people like your work. Just being NOMINATED took my breath away.

Anyway, I'll provide the link and if you feel motivated to do so, please go vote for us! :-) Hey, they told me to tell everyone to vote. So, tell your friends to get out and VOTE for Family Affair Photograph! Trust me this is an easier election than the upcoming November presidential election. Click HERE to vote for Family Affair Photography.

Last word on the subject, to the person who nominated us, we REALLY appreciate it and it means the world to us knowing that you obviously love the photos we took for you. THANK-YOU!
Sonny and Monica

Nat & Megan ~ We Do!

2008-10-08T01:32:00.001-07:00

When Megan contacted me, she informed me that she only needed a photographer for her wedding ceremony and some family portraits. She didn't need a large amount of time, under 2 hours. We created a special weekday wedding package to fit her photography needs. It was a lot of fun to be a small part of Nat & Megan's wedding.

Sean, Amy and Family

2008-10-06T19:39:00.000-07:00

We met Amy through Mandy who had her family portrait done earlier this year through Op: Love Reunited. Once we met Amy we could understand why these two were friends as both are wonderful strong women with strong family values.

As Amy and I were talking and walking, I learned she didn't have a lot of photos from when she was growing up and how they are important to her now. It was the same for me, I have very little from my childhood and even less with my brothers and sisters. For that reason, I took TONS of photos of my own children, soon they were calling me "mamarazzi" because of the camera was always in their faces.

Both Sonny and I enjoyed our day at the park with Amy, Sean, their two children and their foreign exchange student who had the cutest little smile when she wasn't sure what we were saying.

Jay & Nikki ~ We Do!

2008-10-04T22:41:00.001-07:00

Nikki & Jay came from Las Vegas to have their wedding here in the great Northwest. Nikki has three beautiful daughters who live here with their families. For that reason they came here for the wedding instead of everyone having to fly to Las Vegas..

It was a beautiful ceremony overlooking the Puget Sound at the Aloha Bed & Breakfast Inn. Due to the size of this wedding, we created a package for 2 hours of coverage - no affair is too small for us!

We wish Jay and Nikki a lifetime of happiness.

Sean & Kim

2008-10-02T13:21:00.000-07:00

When Kim had called asking if I had any availability for a family portrait within a few days because her husband was heading to Iraq, I KNEW I would find the time for them. I'm so glad it worked out, not only did I find time but more importantly the weather cooperated! We really enjoyed our time at the park with Shawn, Kim and their precious little boy. We also look forward and hope we get to photograph Shawn's homecoming.

Mathew & Mallery ~ We Do!

2008-09-30T18:13:00.001-07:00

Mathew & Mallery were recently married at the Indian Summer Golf Course in Olympia. Having typical Western Washington weather, it had been raining the day before and didn't look promising for an outdoor wedding. However, it cleared up and the sun even made an appearance warming up the day, the event and of course the guests. Mallery is one of the sweetest brides you can ask to photograph, her and Mathew were a lot of fun to work with. We look forward to the after the wedding photo shoot this spring.

* We will be uploading the photos to a complete online viewing gallery soon at Family Affair Photography Gallery. It will be password protected, the bride and groom will have the password to share with those they want.

Something New ...

2008-09-29T20:51:00.000-07:00

I'm excited to announce that we now have an online viewing gallery to display ALL the wedding photographs from an event. I have already started uploading a few of the most current weddings and will continue to do so for all our future weddings and for those who haven't received their CD's/DVD's.

Since these albums will contain photos from the entire wedding they will require a password and it will be at the discretion of the bride/groom. There is one album with 300 photos that is open for general viewing at this time.

To check out the gallery click here: Family Affair Photo Gallery.

Alan & Julie

2008-09-29T14:02:00.000-07:00

Julie had contacted me and asked me about photographing a surprise anniversary party. She was planning a 10th anniversary celebration and it was going to be a surprise to her husband, Alan. She put in a lot of time and love into planning this wonderful event.

All the guests were waiting up in the balcony at the Gothic Ballroom at the Tacoma Landmark Convention Center and when Alan, Julie and a friend of theirs walked into the ballroom with a friend who was supposedly considering using the location for her wedding next year he was surprised by all the guests (some of whom flew in unknown to him for the occasion) leaning over the balcony yelling SURPRISE!

Alan was obviously touched and surprised by the event. It was a wonderful evening enjoyed by all.

Robert & Lauren ~ We Do!

2008-09-26T02:14:00.000-07:00

If I had to do a word association with Robert and Lauren the words that come to mind are "kind and caring". If I could have a third word, 'family' would have to be involved as it was obvious that family was important to them in many ways. It was a joy to be a part of their family on this special day.

Lauren holding all the bouquets - she looked to cute to pass up this photo opportunity!

Their first time to see each other on their wedding day.

Robert and Lauren were married at the Holy Cross Catholic Church in Tacoma. At first the Father told us NO photos were allowed to be taken during the ceremony. However after the bride, Sonny and I talked to him, reassuring that we would not be intrusive we were given a somewhat reluctant okay to shoot during the ceremony.

Afterwards we were informed that he forgot we were there photographing the ceremony. That was what we wanted to hear! We always try to remain as unobtrusive as possible for the event.

We wish Lauren and Robert the very best, again thank you for including us at your wedding!

Senior Portraits

2008-09-23T20:49:00.000-07:00

Sonny and I are part of the Puget Sound Photography Group. It's a group with varied levels of photographers from professional to novice. For me, it's a great social outlet as I'm usually so involved with weddings I don't get many opportunities to meet others.

Recently we were involved in helping organizing a senior portrait shoot for the group. We were there to help with the flow of the events. We also had the opportunity to photograph three of the seniors who were participating in the event.

Sonny and I enjoyed watching the other photographers work, I especially liked watching them work on the posing and getting creative with the seniors. It was a great learning experience for all.

Cameron & Jenessa ~ We Will!

2008-09-23T19:43:00.001-07:00

We met with Cameron and Janessa at Brown's Point where they will be having their wedding reception immediately following their church wedding next month. After taking a few photos at Brown's Point we moved over to Dash Point State Park. We walked a trail and got to know them a bit better. We enjoyed their easygoing personalities and we look forward to photographing their upcoming wedding.

Jaime & Anne ~ We Will!

2008-09-23T01:22:00.000-07:00

When Jaime & Anne asked if we would be agreeable to doing the engagement shoot at Ocean Shores, I jumped at the opportunity. Not only would it be a fun shoot, I could enjoy some ocean air and a little bit of relaxation.

We took our two dogs and let them play on the beach. Jaime & Anne brought their foster son who also had the opportunity to play on the beach. After a day at the beach we met up at the Calway Bay where they were hoping to have a Guinness with a special message photographed. Unfortunately the bartender who was capable of doing that had gone home for the day.

We enjoyed our day at the beach with Jaime, Anne and their foster son. We are looking forward to their upcoming wedding in November.

Holiday Portrait Special

2008-09-18T17:24:00.000-07:00

It's that time of year, when the air smells crisp, the leaves change color and you realize how quickly the holidays are approaching! This year I'm offering a Holiday Portrait Special for family portraits. Perfect if you're looking for a good gift for the parents or grandparents, and also for that great shot in the holiday card or newsletter.

** Gift certificates also available, the gift of a family portrait is a wonderful gift!

The Holiday Portrait Special will include the following:

1 to 2 hour photography session

up to 6 people can be included in a session (additional people in each session will be $10 each)

includes two finished 5x7's, one 8x10 enlargement

includes a CD of high resolution images for your personal usage

$90 for the complete package (no hidden charges)

You can check out some of my family portaits here in my business blog - on the side bar look under the weddings for the portraits. Those that start with an 'F' (family) will be family portraits!

Sara Evans & Josh Gracin

2008-09-17T14:49:00.001-07:00

A few days ago Sonny and I saw Sara Evans and Josh Gracin at the Puyallup Fair. Admittedly Sonny isn't a huge country music fan, he knew some of the songs that have crossed over into the main stream. Despite that, he seemed to enjoy himself. As for myself, I enjoyed the show but, I must admit most of the time I was playing with my camera and that always keeps me happy!

It was a lot of fun walking around, people watching, checking out the different exhibits, eating 'krusty pups' and scones. I hope you enjoy some of these non-"work" related photos from the concert and well, the cow who seems to be playing peek a boo with me.

*** You can view and order copies of these photos at our gallery: Concert Photos

(the goal is to have them all up by Christmas 2008)

Kudos

2008-09-16T22:56:00.000-07:00

I've been told on several occasions that I need to remember to post the kudos we receive. I remember once in a while to do so. Since I had several here in my e-mail file I figured I'd share a couple that we received.

Each time we get a kudos e-mail, it always makes me tear up and each time I give thanks that we've had thee best brides and grooms possible!

----------------------------------------------------------------- Hi Sonny & Monica,

Julie and I are very happy with the photographs. It was a tough place to take good pictures, with it being a dark interior and the extremely sunny exterior, but you guys did an amazing job of avoiding the contrast. Our parents love the pictures, too.

Thanks for the great photos,

Steve & Julie

Hi Monica!

We just wanted to let you know that we love, love, love the pictures! We are very pleased with everything! I even recomended you to a co-worker getting married. Thanks again for all your hardwork!

Cece & John

September Anniversaries

2008-09-16T22:32:00.001-07:00

Once again it's time to recognize past couples who invited us to photograph and be a part of their day. Each and every wedding has something memorable for us. Sonny and I both love what we do and feel really lucky to have such opportunities.

We have been in the photography business about 5 years now and September was the month were everything slowed down for us. Not so this year, we are booked through the first week of November.

If you are considering us for a winter wedding, we do have some special rates/discounts for Nov/Dec weddings!

Congratulations and best wishes for each of these couples anniversaries and we wish you many more happy healthy years ahead!

Baby T

2008-09-16T08:46:00.001-07:00

Time for everyone to say awwwwwwww. Baby T is tremendously terrific and had me once again needing my very own grandma fix. Sonny and I had the great pleasure of photographing baby T. Her parents received a gift certificate for our soon to be announced 'Watch Baby Grow' package. We are looking forward to seeing her grow and reach her first birthday.

Dave & Beth - the families

2008-09-16T02:00:00.000-07:00

On the Friday before their wedding, we met up with Dave, Beth and both their families for some relaxed family portraits. It was fun getting to know the two families and when it came time for the wedding the next day I felt I knew the families enough to know how they reacted in front of the cameras.

The turtles are a favorite of Sonny's ... it seems every time we have a photo shoot at Pt Defiance he has to look for the turtles. The children in the groups always love when they see these guys sunning themselves.

Dave & Beth ~ We Do!

2008-09-12T15:28:00.000-07:00

Beth & Dave were married at Millerslyvania State Park south of Olympia. They had a wonderful quiet part of the park which provided an intimate feel to event. If I were to have an outdoor wedding for myself and Sonny, I think I'd seriously consider this location. Not only was the location beautiful, the weather was ideal.

Immediately following the event Dave was leaving for a few months for some additional training with the US Army. They will head out this winter on their honeymoon. We wish you two the best and look forward to seeing you again.

Ted & Diana ~ We Do!

2008-09-10T22:50:00.000-07:00

Diana & Ted were my first ever Tuesday wedding to photograph. It once again felt a bit odd not photographing the event with my husband. For this wedding I had another photographer by the name of Kim assist as my second shooter.

Diana & Ted had their ceremony at the Rose Garden at Point Defiance with a reception following immediately after at the Divine Elegance Chapel a few short blocks from the park. After the ceremony we were able to walk around the park a bit with the newlyweds and get many photographs of just the two of them. It was enjoyable watching the two of them together and how Ted looked after Diana.

We thank you for allowing us to be a part of your day and we of course look forward to seeing you again soon.

Ryan & Courtney ~ We Do!

2008-09-08T15:54:00.001-07:00

We had three brides and grooms that we photographed at this wedding, 2 past couples and of course Ryan & Courtney. Above L-R Cameron & Jessica, Courtney & Ryan and Gabrielle & Brett. You can click on their names and it will direct you to their wedding photos. :-)

Once again, we had the opportunity to photograph a wedding at Thornwood Castle. This time the weather cooperated allowing Courtney & Ryan to have their wedding outdoors in the garden. This wedding almost felt like a family reunion to Sonny and me. We had two former couples whose weddings we had photographed and of course some of their families were there also.

Thank you for allowing us to capture your special day, we had a lot of fun seeing familiar faces once again.

Aaron & Mariko ~ We Will!

2008-09-06T22:18:00.000-07:00

We met with Aaron & Mariko at the University of Washington, Seattle where they had attended. I hadn't been to the campus before and enjoyed the brief tour we had during the engagement session. More than the tour, I enjoyed watching the playfulness of these two. They weren't afraid to have fun and enjoy each others company.

Aaron is now back in Iraq to finish his deployment. Sonny and I look forward to photographing their wedding in 2009.

Adam & Nicole ~ We Do!

2008-09-06T00:46:00.000-07:00

Adam & Nicole recently were married at the Landmark in Tacoma. They had the wedding ceremony in the Gothic Ballroom with a reception that followed in the Grand Ballroom. I've photographed a few other weddings there before at the Roof Top Ballroom and it was always the only wedding going on at the time. This particular weekend the Landmark had three weddings taking place. Even though there were three weddings, we really didn't see much of the other wedding parties.

Thank you Adam & Nicole for letting us be a small part of your special day.

Bobby & Kristina ~ Op: Love Reunited

2008-09-05T00:47:00.000-07:00

Seems lately I've had several calls for the Op: Love Reunited program. I'm always delighted to meet the young men and women who serve our country along with their families who give just as much.

We met Bobby & Kristina at Pt Defiance Park in Tacoma for our photo shoot. We had a lot of fun watching their son explore the park.

Just as a side note, for those of you who know, my youngest son will be deploying in a few days. It's been especially hard this time as I didn't get to have much contact with him before the deployment. My prayers are with those who serve - Thank you!

Richard, Amanda & Family ~ Op: Love Reunited

2008-09-03T01:35:00.000-07:00

Last week Sonny & I photographed several military families wanting portraits using the Op: Love Reunited program. For this program we will photograph pre-deployment, during deployment and the homecoming. There have been several homecomings I haven't been able to attend due to other obligations and for them I offer a free sitting.

As I watched Richard & Amanda's four daughters, I couldn't help but think there will be a LOT of broken hearted boys in the future! We had a lot of fun with the girls and it was a bit of an eye opener for me. I had raised 1 daughter and 2 boys and I always thought having all girls would've been easier. NOT SO! Girls can get into as much as a boy.

Derrick & Carmen ~ Op: Love Reunited

2008-09-02T23:03:00.000-07:00

Recently Sonny and I had the honor of meeting Derrick and his family. They came to us for a family portrait session before he deploys to Iraq. Both Sonny and I fell in love with their daughter. She has definite ideas of what looks good for the portraits. Someday she just might be a future super model!

We wish them the best and will keep them in our prayers. We also look forward to documenting Derrick's homecoming next year.

Andrew & Brittany ~ We Do!

2008-08-28T21:22:00.001-07:00

Brittany & Andrew recently got married at the beautiful historic Thornwood Castle. They were planning on an outdoor wedding however with the rain, it became an indoor wedding. Luckily it was just as beautiful inside as it would've been outside. Brittany & Andrew just went with the flow and didn't let the rain ruin their day. After all as Andrew stated, he heard that rain on your wedding day was supposed to bring you luck.

We had a great time photographing their wedding and wish them a lifetime of love and happiness.

How to ...

2008-08-27T21:12:00.001-07:00

... make your photographer tear up with joy.

I found this comment under Jennifer & Andrew's wedding photos.

Monica,

Thank you so much!!! it was one of the hottest days! but thankfully through the heat and chaos, you managed to pull us through!!! We appreciate that you were part of our special day and that you have made such beautiful memories that will bring such joy to us for years to come!!! thanks again for creating wonderful memories of the beginning of our new lives together!!!

Andrew and Jennifer Cruz

If I could give them a hug I would! :-) It was such a delight to find that.

Wade & Amy Lynn ~ We Do!

2008-08-26T17:37:00.001-07:00

When I see Wade & Amy Lynn, I think of the expression "actions speak louder than words". That is exactly what you get with these two. It's the little things I see them doing for each other and for those they love. It's those actions that speak volumes about how they feel.

Amy Lynn & Wade got married at Lake Wilderness Lodge in Maple Valley, the weather couldn't have been better for this outdoor wedding. Especially after all the rain we were having! We were all treated to a wonderful sunset with Mt Rainier in the distance.

Thank you for letting us be a part of your wedding and your family. We look forward to seeing you when you return from your honeymoon.